感受富有的10大心理方法

to an elegant restaurant…for lunch.
I’ll never forget the time a group of friends and I went to a French restaurant I’d been longing to visit that was a little pricey. It was tucked away on a leafy, residential street. Inside, tall windows surrounded a dining room, bare save for the wooden tables with thick, sturdy legs. We enjoyed the bread basket, drank a carafe of the rough house red, and I ate a croque madame, oozy with egg yolk. We shared dessert, something chocolatey as I recall, and sat for a long while that afternoon finishing the wine in the early spring sunshine. To this day it was one of the best $20 I ever spent.
去一個優雅的餐廳吃午餐。和幾個朋友一起，找一家有氣氛的餐廳。這將會成爲你一段美好的回憶。

into a high-end boutique.
Touch the clothes, appreciate the craftsmanship, try on whatever you like. Then breeze right out, unscathed.
出入高端舞會。選擇品位的衣服，穿上自己喜歡的衣服。

up your virtual shopping cart…and then close your browser.
For me personally, this works much better than actually going into a store which will somehow inevitably make me feel bad about myself and angry at the world. I hit up Anthropologie, ShopBop, ModCloth, Nordstrom, or Sephora and load my shopping basket full of everything I want. Then I look at the total — so glad I won’t be adding all those digits to my credit card — and close the computer. The end feeling is one that I got whatever I wanted and didn’t have to suffer the consequences.
將網上的購物車裝滿然後關掉瀏覽器。這樣我們會覺得自己已經得到了我們想要的，而我們又不用花錢。

yourself out for tea or cappuccino. And I don’t mean the kind you grab on the way to the subway. Go somewhere they will serve you in proper china with an adorable little spoon. Seat yourself at a table. Enjoy the ritual of the experience. Don’t read; just sit back and enjoy the aroma of your beverage, the hot cup in your hands, and the luxury of doing nothing.
請自己喝茶或喝咖啡。試着享受這個過程，不要讀書，靜靜地坐着並享受它的氣息。

rience abundance.
Have you ever gone to a store with just lots and lots of one thing? Plastic boxes deep with buttons that you can sink your hands into, a room ringed with bolts of colorful fabrics, shelves lined with bottles of wine, a flower shop filled with fragrant blooms. Sometimes just experiencing abundance — even of something as unassuming as a ball of yarn — can give you a sense of abundance, and if you’re lucky, maybe even a bit of wonder.
體驗充足感。你有沒有注意過超市裏巨大的塑料箱子，你深深地將手放進去才能摸到底，一個有各種各樣顏色的屋子？這些物體的富足感會讓你感受神奇，覺得自己也是奇蹟的一部分。

up perfume samples.
I am experiencing a new obsession with perfume, and great perfumes are as complex and subtle as the best cheese and wine. What makes them even more fun, though, is how personal and evocative they are, and how they tap into imagination and fantasy. Buy wee little samples of exquisite scents here, ask for free samples of your favorite at Sephora, or just read some of the best perfume blogs for a taste of olfactory luxury.
試商店的香水小樣。讓售貨員拿出你最喜歡的香水的試用裝，那些美麗的香味會讓你由衷地感受到富有。

a new lipstick.
Isn’t there just something about the makeup counters in department stores? The sales associates are pleasantly fawning and all the glass and reflective surfaces evoke Grace Farrell’s dressing room. Walk away with a new lipstick and you may just feel like a new woman. Is there anything more glamorous than a bare face, a shock of red lipstick, and big sunglasses?
買一支新口紅。有什麼比一個乾淨白皙的臉上，配上魅力的口紅和大大的太陽鏡來的更過癮呢？

culturally rich.
There are so many free programs at planetariums, libraries, book stores, and museums. You might be listening to a lecture about something a little (or a lot) esoteric — 15th century Provençal literary traditions or how printmaking has changed through the ages — but you’ll walk out with your knowledge base broadened and your experience of life enriched.
文化富有感。天文館，圖書館或書店，博物館有很多免費的節目，去體驗一場免費的講座，也是不錯的選擇。

pampered on the cheap.
There may not be an Aveda Institute near you, but there are certainly other schools for natural healers at which you can receive discounted treatments performed by students. Also, keep your eyes peeled for no-frills bodywork and reflexology places in your area. Or do what the thriftiest of those in need of pampering do: take some beauty products to your gym (an exfoliating treatment, a thick body butter, a facial mask) and turn the locker room into your own mini-spa.
淘物美價廉的東東。你可以低價買夠spa需要的各種東東，建立自己的美容spa。

t your blessings.
You knew this one was coming. The surest way to remember the embarrassment of riches already at your feet, for free.
收集自己的願望。最終的一點就是學會感恩，祈願是免費的，還可以讓你感受幸福。