快樂之人從來不會做的6件事

Happy people do a lot of spend time expressing gratitude, cultivating optimism, practicing kindness, nurturing loving relationships, committing to meaningful goals, savoring life's little pleasures, and so on and so forth.

快樂之人做很多事情。他們花時間來表達感謝，培養樂觀精神，練習仁慈，滋養愛情，致力於有意義的目標，品味生活中的小樂趣，等等等等。

But they NEVER…

但他們從來不……

other people's business.

1.介意別人之事

Forget about what others are looking at where they are and what they dy is doing better than you because nobody can do better than are walking your own times the reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes circumstances with everyone else's public highlight listen to the noise of the world, instead of stop the comparisons!Ignore the en to your own inner your own business.

忘記其他人在做什麼。不再關注他們在哪裏，有什麼。沒有人正比你做得更好,因爲沒有人能比你做得更好。走你自己的路。有時我們糾結不安的原因是我們拿自己幕後的情況和其他人的公開精彩場面做比較。我們傾聽世界的聲音,而不是自己。所以停止比較！忽略那些干擾。傾聽你內心的聲音。管好你自己的事。

validation of self-worth from others.

2．從他人身上尋求自我價值

When you are content to simply be yourself, without comparing and competing to impress others, everyone worthwhile will respect even more importantly, you will respect yourself.

當你認爲做自己很舒服,不會刻意地給他人留下深刻印象,你會值得被他人尊重。甚至更重要的是,你會尊重自己。

What you call yourself, and who you decide to become, is your problem.

你想讓自己什麼樣,你決定成爲誰,是你自身的問題。

on other people and external events for happiness.

3.依靠他人和無關自己之事來得到快樂

Unhappiness lies in that gap between what we have now and what we think we the truth is, we don't need to acquire anything more to be content with what we already don't need anyone else's permission to be life is magnificent not because someone says it is, or because you have acquired something new, but because you choose to see it as 't let your happiness be held is always yours to choose, to live and experience.

之所以不快樂就在於我們現在所擁有的和我們認爲我們所需要的之間的差距。但事實是,來滿足我們已經擁有的，並不意味這我們需要得到更多的。我們不需要別人的同意來得到快樂。你的生活是有意義的，並不是因爲其他人告訴你的，或者因爲你得到了新的東西，而是因爲你自己的選擇。不要讓你的綁架快樂。只有你自己去選擇，去生活，去體驗，快樂纔是你的。

on to resentment.

4.心中充滿怨恨

Let today be the day you stop being haunted by the ghosts from your happened in the past is just one chapter in your story; don't close the book, just turn the page.

讓今天成爲你趕走心魔的一天。過去發生的事情只不過是你一生中的一個小小篇章，,不要關上這本書，只需翻到新的篇章。

d prolonged periods of time in negative environments.

5.在消極環境上花費大量時間

You can't make positive choices for the rest of your life without an environment that makes those choices easy, natural, and protect your spirit and potential from contamination by limiting your time with negative people and the environments they inhabit.

沒有一個讓你輕易、自然、享受地做出選擇的積極的環境，你就不會做出你餘生積極的選擇。所以遠離那些容易給你帶來消極情緒的人和他們所居住的環境。

st the truth.

6.牴觸真理

It is a certain deathtrap when we spend our lives learning how to lie, because eventually these lies grow so strong in our minds that we become bad at seeing, telling and living our own s come apart so easily when they have been held together with you resist the truth, you will live a lie every day as the truth haunts your thoughts every night.

當我們浪費我們的生命去學習如何撒謊時，我們就走進了一個陷阱。因爲這些謊言最終會深深植入我們的思想，使我們在觀察、分辨和堅持真理之路上走偏。生活很容易會被謊言來誤導。如果你抵制真理,你會每天都住一個謊言的世界裏，真相卻會每晚縈繞在你的內心深處。