雙語閱讀：他是不是你心中的完美男友
摘要：記住，世間並無絕對的完美，但是一定有一個不完美的完美情人在等待着你。
1. He appreciates who you are.
他喜歡你——如你所是的樣子。
You are unique and wonderful in your own way. Whether you wake up the neighborhood with your bathroom singing or like solving Sudoku puzzles in the middle of the night, he accepts you exactly the way you are. He doesn’t want to change anything about you.
你是獨一無二的，有着你獨有的魅力。不管你有何種怪癖，比如喜歡在早晨沖涼時大聲唱歌、吵醒鄰居，或者喜歡大半夜的玩數獨遊戲，他都接受你本來的樣子。他不想改變你。
2. He keeps his promises.
他信守承諾。
It can be extremely annoying when a guy insists that he will do something, but never gets around to do it. A true gentleman doesn’t backtrack on his words, but walks the talk. You rest assured that he only makes commitments that he intends to keep.
如果一個人信誓旦旦的承諾要做某事，卻始終沒有去做，這的確非常令人惱火。一個真正的紳士是不會食言的，而是言出必行。對一個完美男友，你完全可以相信，他一旦做出承諾，就一定會信守諾言。
3. He stands by you.
他是不是你心中的完美男友
他支持你。
He may not agree with your every decision, but supports the choices you make. He is there for you in success and in failure, in health and in sickness, in laughter and in tears.
也許他並不贊同你的某些主張，但是他會支持你做出自己的決定。無論你成功或失敗，健康或疾病，歡笑或哭泣，他都會陪着你。
4. He gives you space.
他留給你個人空間。
Psychologists say that having privacy in a relationship is very important. The perfect boyfriend allows you enough me-time, and doesn’t try to sneak a peek into your personal diary. He doesn’t want you to lose the “I” in the “We.”
心理學家指出，戀人之間保持私人空間是非常重要的。完美男友會留給你充足的“自我時間”，而且不會想偷瞄一眼你的日記。他不會要求你只有“我們”而捨棄“自我”。
5. He is not jealous or insecure.
他不善妒，不缺乏安全感。
Did she just check him out? Who is that guy who texted her in the middle of the night? What is she doing on a Saturday night without me? Nope, this man doesn’t waste time on such silly questions. He trusts you and is certain that you trust him.
“她是不是剛看了那個男的一眼?”“那是哪個男的大半夜的給她發短信?”“週六晚上，我不在身邊，她在幹嘛呢?”——不，一個完美男友不會浪費時間瞎想這些問題。他信任你，而且也深知你信任他。
6. He gets along with your family.
他和你的親人相處融洽。
You don’t need to fret when it comes to meeting the family. The perfect guy puts on his best behavior in front of your parents and tries to befriend your sibling. Dream come true when he comfortably fits in with your family on thanksgiving dinners.
當你帶他去見家長的時候，你不會焦慮不安。一個完美男友在你的父母面前會表現出最完美的舉止，也會對你的兄弟姐妹非常友善。當你在感恩節的晚餐席上，發現他完全融入了你的家庭，這真是美夢成真的幸福一刻。
7. He makes you feel beautiful.
他讓你感覺你很美。
You don’t have to be Scarlet Johansson or Angelina Jolie to feel pretty. When you are with him, you feel like the most attractive woman on Earth. He treats you like his princess, and rightfully so.
即使你姿色不如斯嘉麗·約翰遜或者安吉麗娜·朱莉，你也可以覺得自己很美。當你和他在一起的時候，你會覺得你是世界上最有魅力的女人。他會把你當成他的公主，而且理所當然的這樣做。
8. He expresses his love.
他會表達他的愛意。
True to his own style, sometimes that can mean preparing a home cooked meal, surprising you at the airport or simply saying “I love you.
一個名符其實的完美男友會用各種方式表達他的愛意，有時是準備一頓家常飯菜，有時是在機場接你、好給你一個驚喜，有時是一句簡簡單單的“我愛你”。
9. He wants to introduce you to his friends.
他想把你介紹給他的朋友。
Hiding you from his close pals and deliberately being “single” on Facebook can mean a red flag. A man in love wants you to be part of his social life and show you off to friends, because he thinks you are great.
如果他會避免你和他的兄弟們見面，或者故意在臉書網上顯示自己處於“單身”狀態，那麼你們的感情就亮起紅燈了。一個愛你的男人會非常欣賞你，會希望你成爲他的社交生活的一部分，希望能在他的朋友面前爲你而顯擺。
10. He makes you a better person.
他使你成爲更好的人。
You are already amazing, but being with him brings out the best in you. It’s like having a personal male cheerleader! Your strengths are further amplified, and you think life just can’t get any better.
你已經非常好了，但和他在一起使你成爲更好的自己。這就好像你擁有一名個人專屬的男性拉拉隊隊長一樣!你感覺自己更有勇氣了，而且生活再完美不過了。
Remember that perfection doesn’t exist, but there is someone imperfectly perfect out there for you.
記住，世間並無絕對的完美，但是一定有一個不完美的完美情人在等待着你。
